Another survey...............ABORTION.....

[Angie]

ABORTION...
Is it a right of a woman or not?
and in what instance do you think it is?
Please be honest and I would love your feedback.

[Anci]

aaahhhhh you stole my thread!!! LOOL just kidding..I was just thinking to open a new thread about this, just didn't have time today, my dd was way too fussy...
ok...here's my 2 cents...I am totally pro life. My reasons are that I just don't believe I have any right to decide if a human being lives or dies regardless if they have to grow in my body for 9 months. I believe from the moment of conception, it is a human being and deserves it's own rights.Everyone has the right to life from conception until natural death.
I am kind of religious, but some of the reasons I have are not religious...I do not believe that anyone in this world has the right to decide if someone should live or die.I mean, once a life is formed, who are we to say it doesn't have the right to live? And I've heard women say ''well it's my body I can do whatever I want" Well, yes it's your body but that's another life inside of you, that isn.t you...And he or she has all the rights to live just like you do.
And I keep thinking...what if my mom would have aborted me?I wouldn't be talking to you right now, would I? And I don't understand how can a woman go and have her own child killed...that;s beyond my understanding...
I feel that abortion is wrong because it is a selfish thing to do. I believe that people trivialize the truth by calling a growing baby a "fetus" or an "unwanted pregnancy" when in reality it is a true human being, capable of feeling and pain, as well as comfort and love. No matter how tiny it is, it IS a person. It makes me mad because people make the choice to have sex. You gotta deal with the consequences.

[Jason]

I am in my personal life pro-life, but for everyone else I think they should have the right to choose for themselves.

[Angie]

thanks gals...for replying to my thread....I am..myself,,,pro choice......but.....pro life too.....

[teachermom]

I'm pro-choice. I don't like abortion but I think it should be up to women whether or not they want to carry a baby to term.

[Angie]

I am in total agreement with you

[nicdesign]

i'm pro-choice. don't think i could have ever had an abortion myself, and my husband and i chose as soon as we conceived that we would not terminate unless there was a danger to my life. but that doesn't mean i don't support the right of other to have that choice.

i think it's necessary to say that pro-choice does not mean pro-abortion. i do not know anyone that is pro-choice that actually touts abortion as a wonderful thing. i also know many women in my own friend circle that have had to have an abortion, and who think about it every day of their lives. it has again become a topic of conversation for these ladies since i got pregnant. it's a decision that one makes after long, hard thought and with a great deal of sadness. but sometimes, it's the decision that needs to be made.

anyway, i just think it's important to remember the hardship of abortion for everyone, even if they are pro-choice.

[jovan grant]

Of course it is the woman right to decide if she wants an abortion. That was one of the first things God gave to humans when he created us was the right to choose. Now whether or not the woman should go through with it is another topic.

[Zicea Becks]

I'm pro choice. 120%

No one wants to HAVE one, but sometimes the situation isn't ideal, and that's when that woman has to make that choice.

They're the ones have to carry the child, and possibly keep it. It's something they will have to live with the rest of their lives regardless if they keep it or not.

[Milena]

I believe that woman should have the RIGHT to choose. Personally, I would not abort, but what other women choose to do is their choice. Rape and incest are the number reason that abortion is justified-- in my opinion. Now there are certain things that I do not agree with when it comes to what term the abortion takes place. I think 1st trimester is as far a it should go.

[trixila]

The most chilling account I ever read about this debate was the comment of a woman involved in a pro-choice march. She looked around at the incredible solidarity of females united for a cause. Something clicked/switched on in her mind: she realized that the cause behind this rally was "the right to kill our children". That pretty much did it for me.

[Maggie]

I'm pro life, but I think that people should have a choice. I think that the father should also have a bigger choice. There are some cases where neither person should be a parent (and I would rather they choose adoption), but I believe that if one person wants to keep the baby that they should be able to keep the baby. The woman didn't make the baby on her own.

[Zicea Becks]

I would love for the man to carry the child, have moning sickness, not be able to sleep for 35-40 weeks, have false labor pains, have to wear ugly a*s maternity clothes (although I just wore regular clothes in a size 5 or 8), then go into labor for God knows how long (my longest was a few days), then pop the kid out of your vagina, then have a doctor snatch the lining of your uterus out and slapped in a tray, have a nurse emabarrasingly wipe your butt, then fill out a bunch of paper work before you can go home with your kid....oh and then have you breast swell up like eggplants, only to have some kid wanting to suck the hell out of them until they can get the suckling right.

I would LOVE for a man to take that on...Y'all want rights??!?!?!? YOU don't have to deal with that crap! You just get to be proud daddy, and change a diaper here and there, and cry about not being able to have sex for a while because the baby is a c*ck-blocker.

I want justice too, d*mn-it!

: )